The candles are lit, the soft music is playing, my husband is slowing taking off my clothes, we passionately kiss and make sweet love all night long... I wish!!!
Well, when infertility and sex meet this is not how it goes. I must admit, I did ask my husband's permission (yes, I said permission)to write a post about our current sex life and he agreed. This is actually how it goes...
He's in bed in his boxers, I get out of the shower, the Daily Show is on TV, I get in bed and ask do you want to have sex. He replies, "we have to" to which I reply, "I am just so tired can we just do it in the morning", he replies "No. I don't want to do it either but we have to, so cowboy up". I laugh, my Barney Rubble laugh (that's what my husband calls one of my laughs) and he laughs. We kiss and I cowboy up. (Figuratively, not literately! Ha!Ha!)
We are still trying to get knocked up on our own, so 10 days after my period starts we begin to have sex. My husband is convince that he should have sex twice a day but I think he has come to realize that it is not as easy as it sounds. It does become somewhat of a chore but we are still having fun and enjoying ourselves.
Now the wait...
Well, when infertility and sex meet this is not how it goes. I must admit, I did ask my husband's permission (yes, I said permission)to write a post about our current sex life and he agreed. This is actually how it goes...
He's in bed in his boxers, I get out of the shower, the Daily Show is on TV, I get in bed and ask do you want to have sex. He replies, "we have to" to which I reply, "I am just so tired can we just do it in the morning", he replies "No. I don't want to do it either but we have to, so cowboy up". I laugh, my Barney Rubble laugh (that's what my husband calls one of my laughs) and he laughs. We kiss and I cowboy up. (Figuratively, not literately! Ha!Ha!)
We are still trying to get knocked up on our own, so 10 days after my period starts we begin to have sex. My husband is convince that he should have sex twice a day but I think he has come to realize that it is not as easy as it sounds. It does become somewhat of a chore but we are still having fun and enjoying ourselves.
Now the wait...
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